A little about me...
I refuse to become disenchanted with life - no matter how frustrating the people are or thankless the tasks can be or interfering the unforeseen can sometimes feel. I am all about the small moments, the bright and beautiful often overlooked, the loud and gritty, the understated, and everything that makes me feel something deeply.
I work in the Adult Industry as the Director of Marketing and Public Relations for the biggest designer and manufacturer of sex toys in the world. It's an awesome job and keeps me quite busy.
I'm a married mama of two middle-schoolers; I keep it fairly neutral in the 'mom' zone. We have some awesomely frank discussions. My kids will be far better for being raised in a no-bullshit home where they learn tolerance and have a broad worldview. Also, they keep me very busy.
I've lived in Philly for going on 17 years now. I love this city and am grateful for the art and live music that also call this city home. We're a good fit.
I don't have "spare time" per se, but I am a writer, editor, match-maker, fixer of things, and photographer...as much as I can be.
I don't hide behind an alias - my name is Victoria and my blog is aptly named for my tendency to be an all-around alpha-bitch.